I also have the sex appeal of a toaster.
Best friend #1 got a job at PWC in Chicago, best friend #2 just accepted a job at the Waldorf Astoria in New York… and here i am, tongue out, stubborn as usual, busy telling the world to suck my dick, going nowhere.
you know what, i don’t think people fucking change. some people, especially ones, in relationships are adamant about staying with someone because “they’ve change,” while some no longer find a close personal relationship with someone because “they’ve change”.
that’s not how it goes. we don’t really change, we just find more about ourselves, and even become more certain of who we are. but in the process of doing so, we fight the struggle in only being certain about the uncertainty of it all. and that’s the part that gets messy. this can be the crossroads that you meet that person, who wants to change you. but they don’t know your paths can only intertwine for so long, until the certainty kicks in.
no, i don’t think people don’t change. and i find this sad. but knowing this is only for the better.